I know for sure that you hate it if others judge you. You’re not alone. Believe me. We have been all there!
I’ve experienced both self-judgment and observed a lot of judgment around me.
Most people don´t know themselves and yet claim to have expert knowledge of another life experience.. We are 𝙨𝙤 𝙦𝙪𝙞𝙘𝙠 to judge others and ourselves..
That is why this list down below gives you a little reminder that you can live without judgment. Try it!
ꕥ 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲.
If you want to give it to others you need to first give it yourself.
What I mean by that is that if we don’t accept and love ourselves we can not give it to others.
ꕥ 𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀.
Pay attention to how you are thinking about others and yourself.
ꕥ 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲.
If we give thanks for life and every situation we are in, there is no place for criticism / judgment.
Every criticism and judgment is deeply rooted in fears. You have to allow love into your life to overcome some deep fears.
Where is an abundance of love there is no place for judgment and criticism!
ꕥ 𝗗𝗼𝗻´𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗷𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.
How we judge ourselves will be how the world judges us. Our outside world is a reflection of our inner world. Our judgments, our thoughts.
ꕥ 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵𝘆!
You are a piece of this world. And everyone who lives in this world is worthy! Every creature is worthy! Equally worthy!
´ If you judge people, you do not define them.
You define yourself. ´
ꕥ 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 & 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄.
Stand up every morning with an open mindset and be willing to learn and grow every day. We are never too old to learn something new. Life is changing every day, so every day there is an opportunity to learn & grow.
ꕥ 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻.
How do we truly listen to what someone is saying? Focus on the words that have been said, have eye contact, and truly listen, you will understand it better and have a better conversation or can be a better help and support for someone in need.
ꕥ 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁.
Yes, we can mess up things up in life but if we weren´t busy judging ourselves for our failures, we would have more fun than what we often do. So even if you have messed up, give your best self. Change the vibration and be the change you want to see in the world.
The next time you want to judge… Think of this :
Take the time to connect, listen, and get to know others regardless of
how different to you they may be.
Whenever we live in judgment of others, we are always judging 𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴.
Therefore, be empathetic of others as they write their own stories, after all,
we’re all trying our best. 🖤